What Lube should I use for first time Anal Sex? My girlfriend and I are wanting to experiment with anal sex but I'm a little concerned about hurting her. What is the best kind of lube to get (I need the answer to be VERY specific) and I need it to be one I can get at a wal-mart or something like that |
| A good quality water based lube like "Black Silk" should be okay lube well and never think you can lube too much - take it slow and easy - withdraw and lube again until penetration is achieved - Enjoy P&P :-) |
What would you think of a woman that does an*l for the first time with a one night stand? met this chick at a bar she wanted me to do her an*l the first time we hooked up. she said that it was her first one night stand and first anal... dunno what to believe. |
| Maybe she wanted to try something new? Idk. |
First time anal need some help? ok im a guy and tonight my Fiance and me are going to try anal i want it to make it good for her also like should i be easy is my spit ok for lube. like just need some advice sorry if its tmi. my bad |
| Spit is fine, but a proper lube is better. Just go slowly, don't rush or you might hurt her - especially if she hasn't done it before. It takes the muscles a while to relax because they don't stretch easily like vaginal muscle, so go slowly until you can fully enter. If she sounds like she's in pain, then stop where you are and give her a minute to relax before you go any further because unless you're absolutely huge, it really shouldn't hurt her much at all. |
How to do anal sex for the first time? I want to know how to get my girlfriend to have anal sex. Should I wear a condom and should I lube it up, or lube my penis up? Is it safe if we do do it and I c** in her butt? Thanks guys. |
| The best way to go about it is to get her used to having her anus stimulated. I would suggest performing analingus (licking her butt) to get her comfortable with you around there, then put plenty of lube on your penis and her butthole and put it in slowly with short shallow thrusts a little at a time and away you go. As far as coming in her butt, I say go for it is awesome. |
Can anyone tell me where I can information about anal gland problem? I just had to take my dog to the vet for the 2nd time because her anal gland got infected and ruptured. She had to have surgery both times. The first time was a little over 2 years ago. The vet suggested I go have them cleaned every month. Do you think she really needs it done that often. Anyone else have dogs with this problem. |
If you feed her a food that is more dense, it will likely help her anal sacs to empty as she poos..Corn or beet pulp in her food, or feeding canned food, is often the culprit.
feed her one of the holistic diets, such as Canidae, Innova Evo, Wellness, etc..You can find most of those at any locally owned pet supply shop. |
My girlfriend wants anal sex for the first time? my girlfriend wants anal sex for the first time any pointers to make it a good experience i dont want to hurt her butthole |
| iv been having anal sex with my husband for 5 years. the first time we did it was my first time to try anal. he was just sitting on a couch and i sat down on him facing him. we only used spit as lube. i liked it. a couple times he has been hasty and put himself in at a bad angle and that reeeeeally hurts..so DON'T do that! i personally do not like him putting his fingers in my butt... so maybe u should ask ur girl about that first....iv never needed anal plugs or an enema (having water up ur bum is horrible btw). as long as she doesn't need to go #2 yall should be fine. i have used butt plugs but only after we were more experienced. i do use my fingers in the shower to make sure i am clean sometimes...if it makes her feel better then i dont see y she shouldn't. i actually like a little pain with my pleasure and can achieve an orgasm from anal sex alone. i like it rough and i dont mind if it hurts a little...if u want her to be in Zero pain, lots of lube and going slow until shes comfortable is the best way for that. good luck |
Bf had anal sex with his ex and told me he had never done it! now im totally and insecure about what he wants.? have been going out with my bf for about 7 months now he is my first! (sexualy) and i am very happy! i was not his first. he had slept with 6 women before me. anyway. he said he had never had anal sex at the begining of our relationship before i slept with him for the first time so i thought i kneew all i needed to know. and the other night he randomly told me that he had anal sex with his ex when they where together for aroud 7 weeks!!! (she also has a completely different body type to me, small, lage hips and a small bust) he said it only happend once and that she asked.
but what i am confused about is why he lied about it! and why he hasnt asked me to do it??.... he said he didnt feel comfertable to tell me about it. and didnt want to ask. as he knows he i am inexperianced.
so should i let him do it to me??... because i dont want him to think of her wile we are doing it (either do i) or do i say no too it??? soooo confused please help ! my head is everywhere! :(
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And another thing! i asked him if he liked it and he said it was "ok" and that she was the one that asked him to do it. but anal takes some preperation (lubing, cleaning etc) so i dont know if it was her first time at anal... because he alwaysed described her as a quiet girl little boring! but she couldent have been that boring! lol |
| okay, first off speeking from experience lots of ppl think anal is nasty which s the reason i bet he didnt tell you because he didnt know if you were the kinda girl that would like that or not. theres tht now the answer of if you should do it or not, for guys its better cuz well its tighter no matter what and feels better for them, and for girl the first time hurts no lie, i did it, and it hurt, but after a while it gets easier, the whole lube thing you dont have to really do it if you have reg sex first and your wet and he does anal then it helps soooo much,. but dont do it if you dont want to, but trying new things is always good, thats why i did it,, and in a way i like it but its not for everyone. and dont worry about his ex, just make his experience with you more memorable:) they like it when you move a lot to lol.. |
My boyfriend had anal sex with his ex and lied, should i do it with him after that??....? have been going out with my bf for about 7 months now he is my first! (sexualy) and i am very happy! i was not his first. he had slept with 6 women before me. anyway. he said he had never had anal sex at the begining of our relationship before i slept with him for the first time so i thought i kneew all i needed to know. and the other night he randomly told me that he had anal sex with his ex when they where together for aroud 7 weeks!!! (she also has a completely different body type to me, small, lage hips and a small bust) he said it only happend once and that she asked.
but what i am confused about is why he lied about it! and why he hasnt asked me to do it??.... he said he didnt feel comfertable to tell me about it. and didnt want to ask. as he knows he i am inexperianced.
so should i let him do it to me??... because i dont want him to think of her wile we are doing it (either do i) or do i say no too it??? soooo confused please help ! my head is everywhere! :(
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And another thing! i asked him if he liked it and he said it was "ok" and that she was the one that asked him to do it. but anal takes some preperation (lubing, cleaning etc) so i dont know if it was her first time at anal... because he alwaysed described her as a quiet girl little boring! but she couldent have been that boring! lol |
If you're confused, don't do it.
Personally, I would not trust anyone who had sex with someone he'd dated for only 7 weeks AND lied to me about it. How do you trust him after that?
"he said it was 'ok' and that she was the one who asked him to do it."
Really? So she wanted to do it, but he didn't? By saying this, he's basically sending you the message that it wasn't his fault. After having lied about it, I think the least he could have done was to claim responsibility for it. |
Is anal sex totally safe? What precautions should be taken the very first time? What are the DOs and DONTs? Will it be painful for her? Should condom be used? What should be the position? |
Anal sex is not something you just do it is something that is carefully introduced. You should be pleasuring her in every sexual encounter and the anus should be included in your attentions. A few light stroke with a finger over her anal opening feels good and erotic to most women. When you are pleasuring her orally make sure you visit her anus and please her there a little too. Eventually you may begin inserting a well lubricated finger as your tongue on her clitoris brings her to orgasm(s). This will quite naturally lead to gentle anal thrusting with a finger or two as she learns that every time you touch her anally it brings her pleasure . The first several time you have anal sex as such is not you getting off but barely placing your head inside her as you manually masturbate her to climax and then withdrawing. The focus is her pleasure and eventually you can move to complete penetration and thrusting but it take much time and patience as you focus on her pleasure.
If you try and have anal sex with out doing the ground work she will be hurt, hate it, and perhaps hate you, and things will never be the same for her and anal pleasure. Then you will see attitudes like some here. If it is about her pleasure you will do fine, but if you for a minute forget her pleasure and seek yours you will mess the whole thing up. |
My friend had anal sex for the first time, and a few days later he had chlamydia, could it have been dormant? My friend and his gf had anal sex for the first time, and a few days later he had chlamydia, could it have been dormant in her ***? She was tested when they first got together and he was tested a few months earlier..Is it more likely that he had it and it was dormant from a previous girl just rubbing on him in her underwear? Can it be caused purely from bacteria in the rectum? Me and my gf have unprotected anal and i do not want to catch anything |
| one of them cheated...simple |